#reclaimedintimacy

Sex Addicts Don’t like Sex

I love sex. What could be more gratifying than connecting with my partner through lovemaking? Lovemaking means exactly how the word...

Why “it’s fine” does More Harm than Good

The pressure on us to be fine all the time is unrelenting. If we don’t find a way, in every way, to be fine then all hell might break...

Flawed Sexual Response Cycle

The textbook Human Sexual Response Cycle that was created by Masters and Johnson, back in 1966, has been the model conditioned into all...

Why Porn isn’t “Just Porn”

I met a woman the other day that told me that she had just filed for divorce. She went on to say that the cause was infidelity and that...

Bonding 101

In recent years, neuroscientists have found that skin-to-skin contact has many essential benefits for leading happy lives. So pertinent...

Do Women Want to be Ravished by Their Man?

I’d like to start off by acknowledging the definition of ravished which comes from the Latin word rapere: to seize and carry off by...