I love sex. Because I love to connect with my partner through lovemaking. Lovemaking is exactly what the word describes, we actually have the opportunity to generate more love. We do this by joining in loving intimate union not by using each others energy to regulate our emotional imbalances. We can commune with each other by exchanging loving energy while we remain grounded in our own bodies without “losing” ourselves into one another. Lovemaking energy is ecstatic; meaning

The textbook human Sexual Response Cycle that was modeled by Masters and Johnson, back in 1966, has been the model conditioned into all of us as fact. It appears in everything in our culture from porn, public and private school curriculums, and medical sciences. Before Masters and Johnson perfected them, Kinsey made his mark by producing the first porn films showing first hand how the cycle worked. The generations following have taken this model as the gospel. We have been re

I’d like to start off by acknowledging the definition of ravished which comes from the Latin word rapere: to seize and carry off by force. to fill with strong emotion, especially joy. and to rape a woman. These definitions lead me to reason if the concept of ravishing came straight from the Archetype of Woman as Whore. Many believe this archetype has only existed since patriarchy began and probably played a huge role in the erection of it. That’s not to say that there were no

What I hear women saying and also what I have experienced in relationship with men is that the primary block to connection is rage. I’ve noticed that because boys are taught that feelings are for girls and to be a man you essentially can’t have feelings. They have suppressed these feelings to the extent that their personality begins to take on their rage as part of who they believe themselves to be. Congealed rage is also a term that accurately describes this suppression and