I love sex. Because I love to connect with my partner through lovemaking. Lovemaking is exactly what the word describes, we actually have the opportunity to generate more love. We do this by joining in loving intimate union not by using each others energy to regulate our emotional imbalances. We can commune with each other by exchanging loving energy while we remain grounded in our own bodies without “losing” ourselves into one another. Lovemaking energy is ecstatic; meaning

The textbook human Sexual Response Cycle that was modeled by Masters and Johnson, back in 1966, has been the model conditioned into all of us as fact. It appears in everything in our culture from porn, public and private school curriculums, and medical sciences. Before Masters and Johnson perfected them, Kinsey made his mark by producing the first porn films showing first hand how the cycle worked. The generations following have taken this model as the gospel. We have been re

Today, men are facing choices in relationship that they have never had to before in past generations. Women want presence, engagement, and curiosity from their partners in relationship. This newfound awareness is gaining steam. Men are at a real crossroads to ‘clean up their act’ or leave the relationship. By clean up their act, I mean that they are being required to decide to choose their partners each day or let them go. For men, telling their partners that they love them e

I have believed this to be true for most of my life. Yes. Men do feel and I would say should feel loved and even worthy from a close connective experience with one another. But that doesn’t seem to be what is happening today. If men look to sex to make them feel loved and worthy then they’re putting a great burden on sex. Because of the weight that men are walking around with, we (men and women both) might want to take a closer look at this conditioned belief. In order to mak