I love sex. What could be more gratifying than connecting with my partner through lovemaking? Lovemaking means exactly how the word defined. We actually have the opportunity to generate more love. We do this by joining in a loving intimate union, not by using each other’s energy to regulate our emotional imbalances. We can commune with each other by exchanging loving energy while we remain grounded in our own bodies without losing ourselves to one another. Lovemaking energy i

The pressure on us to be fine all the time is unrelenting. If we don’t find a way, in every way, to be fine then all hell might break loose. This is the message that we get from our culture: to be good at everything all the time. Its just easier to be fine and respond to all situations like everything is fine. But is it? And what exactly do we mean by ‘fine’? Fine can be a response of resignation, meaning ‘don’t worry about me' ‘get the attention off of me’, ‘I can handle all

The textbook Human Sexual Response Cycle that was created by Masters and Johnson, back in 1966, has been the model conditioned into all of us. It expends our entire culture. From marketing campaigns, porn, public and private school curriculums, and medical sciences. Before Masters and Johnson perfected this model, Kinsey made his mark by producing the first porn films showing firsthand how the cycle worked. The generations following have taken this model as the gospel. Some p

I met a woman the other day that told me that she had just filed for divorce. She went on to say that the cause was infidelity and that he had told her, since their parting, that he had slept with over thirty women. I told her that it was probably sex addiction because sleeping with that many women isn’t necessary to finding a partner, its obsessive. I told her that when men get addicted to pornography they eventually want what they see in porn, so after some time they event