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Sex Addicts Don’t like Sex

I love sex. What could be more gratifying than connecting with my partner through lovemaking? Lovemaking means exactly how the word...

Why “it’s fine” does More Harm than Good

The pressure on us to be fine all the time is unrelenting. If we don’t find a way, in every way, to be fine then all hell might break...

Bonding 101

In recent years, neuroscientists have found that skin-to-skin contact has many essential benefits for leading happy lives. So pertinent...

Do Women Want to be Ravished by Their Man?

I’d like to start off by acknowledging the definition of ravished which comes from the Latin word rapere: to seize and carry off by...

What Are Men Going Through?

What I hear women saying and also what I have experienced in relationship with men is that the primary block to connection is rage. I’ve...

Do Women Want Sex?

The verdict is in that they do just not the sort that has been on offer up to this point. Time and again women are feeling ‘if this is...

Recovery Before Intimacy

It is of the utmost importance to assess if your partner has a sex addiction so that he can get the attention and care he needs before...

Do Men Feel Loved and Worthy from Sex?

I have believed this to be true for most of my life. Yes. Men do feel and I would say should feel loved and even worthy from a close...

Why 'Fucking' Doesn't Meet Your Needs

Recently, I heard the term Full-Spectrum Sexuality from a video I watched online. As explained in the video, full-spectrum meant all...